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Me: So tell me social community #1, what do you possible have that I don't?
Community #1: An unusual collection of lizards.
Me: That's fine, because I don't like them until they're bags and purses.
Me: Community #2, can I trust you?
Community #2: It depends. Who are you? Really.
Me: Community #3, look at community #2. Tell me, what kind of kisser are they?
Community #3: Sloppy.
And so it goes in the speed dating world of social media networking. Case in point is Twitter. I jumped into this scene only a few weeks ago. I try to be fashionable, but I adopt late.
It's amazing what you learn. And spurn.
Via Twitter, I've come across some great book suggestions, pithy illuminations, and people I find interesting. People I learn from. For me, Twitter is Mensa by injection.
But as we seek to simplify in the new economy, I bet social media networks like Twitter will fast become selective dates. Case in point is a post I read the other day in Conversation Agent featuring Alan Wolk. The whole conversation was around the sanctity of this dating scene called social media. And while Alan talked about the growth of larger communities and how
brands will stumble through them, he makes some good points about where
lesser known brands can earn equity in the conversations. Especially the vertical ones.
Alan points out that social media is driven by behavior. People
who engage have a passion for something. So the more vertical these
communities become, the more hungry the need will be to seek and share
information. Brands who understand the nuance of this dating scene will date a lot.
I'd add that our need for quality over quantity will also drive the trend towards vertical horizons. We want to turn down the noise level. Learn and share with the give-and-get folks. Time is already valuable currency. And so are our conversations. On Twitter for example, I get more out of following and sharing with a select few. I don't have time to bring in da funk n noise.
One-way hucksters like Multi Level Marketers (MLMs) are also creeping onto these sites. No one wants to date Larry the lounge lizard. He only wants one thing. So this will create beautiful walled gardens. Not a bad thing. I like Miracle Grow.
Someone said it best about the social media scene: There are plenty of "experts" who just want a one night stand. But there are also sincere advisers who prefer romance. Brands looking for a meaningful relationship just might get the chocolate and flowers.
So if I select the right date, I just might go on a second. Oh, and one more thing: I like long walks on the beach.